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Saturday, October 21, 2006

Pag Mahal Mo, Lahat Gagawin Mo. Kahit di ka masaya...

That is not true, Love is always about happiness. If you're willing to give-up happiness in exchange of love, you're not loving at all... that's fear. and that fear of losing something or someone will eventually lead to obsession, and obsession can kill... did you know that?


Ganito yan, are you willing to marry a person and spend the rest of your life na hindi ka nman masaya? Someone may say, "OO, dahil nagmahal ako hindi lang para sumaya... ang mahalaga mahal ko sya". Giving that answer can lead you to what? 50 years of unhappy life. See you live 75% of your short life being unhappy... not bad at all kung bobo ka? "Eh, hindi naman sya ganyan nung mag-jowa plang kame." Well ei, don't blame it with your partner. Ikaw ang may kasalanan nun. Masyado kang nagmamadali. Pure love is not enough to decide kung dapat ba o hindi and isang tao. Kailangan mo ding mag-isip dahil hindi ka nabuhay sa mundo para saluhin lahat ng kalungkutan ng sambayanan... Tao lang din yang iniiyakan mo. "Eh, Matututunan nya rin akong mahalin"... Leche hindi totoo yan. Ciguro mapera yang partner mo kaya nakikipag-siksikan ka pa din dyan?


Saying I love You is very easy, Showing love is still very easy (you know what I mean) but living with it, is a whole diffirent thing. You have to learn to determine if your partner is just showing love or living with love. Mahirap magkamali, dahil habang buhay mo tong pagsisihan.


Tandaan mo ito, The most important person in your life is YOU. Love yourself...always look for happiness and by doing so, people will notice it and you'll see......... Love will surround you. Pero wag mo namang masyadong mahalin ang sarili at nakaka-irita na yun.


At kung sasabihin mo pa rin saken na "Basta mamahalin ko pa din sya kahit anu mangyari".... Eh tang-ina ka! Bahala ka sa buhay mo. Sino ba naman ako? isang kaibigan lang...

7 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

i still feel the same way :)

8:12 PM

 
Blogger Joether said...

I understand, really that post is for you. I read your reply on someones post and I decided to post one for you. Anyway, I envy you for standing on your own feeling. Your strong.

7:38 PM

 
Blogger Joether said...

You're strong i mean.

7:39 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thats the oh-so-hopeless-romantic-me talking hehe. sometimes i love to bask in the thought that there is the promise of someone fer me out there. ang sarap maghope diba? but the cynic in me would probly say.. "grow up," lol.

7:50 PM

 
Blogger Joether said...

i hear yah... I somethimes want to live in fantasy... but can't help being practical.

9:26 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

being romantic doesnt mean living in fantasy naman. siguro ok na ung half-half na view. believe in love but not soulmates. loving is a choice, not just a mere feeling. sus. cheesy. tama na nga. haha.

7:44 PM

 
Blogger Joether said...

yah, i think romantic is the word. like your saying balance your heart with you brains? if that's so were on the same point of view then... And thanks for that. hehe

9:43 AM

 

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